Setting Goals That Matter

We all have dreams that we want to come to fruition, but year after year I noticed my dreams would be as far off as the day I dreamed them up.  That all changed in 2011 when I heard Dave Ramsey talk about setting goals for your life.  That year, I accomplished more forward momentum on my dreams than in the previous five years.  I am now on my third year of setting yearly goals in seven areas in my life and I am loving it.  Not only am I achieving more, but the purpose of my life is becoming clearer all the time.

We all start with a dream, that dream must turn into a vision, a vision must turn into goals, goals into action, and action then turns your goals, vision and dreams into reality.  Here are some basics to setting goals that matter in your life.

The Wheel of Life:
    Zig Ziglar identified seven areas that you should be growing in.  In order to keep the wheel turning smoothly, you should be working on all these areas. (If seven is overwhelming, pick one that jumps out to you)

Each one of these areas (Financial, Spiritual, Physical, Intellectual, Family, Social, Career) is important and should not be neglected.  I know that for me, a couple of these come much easier than others, but after finding my goal in each area, my life has a better balance.

Keep Your Goals SMART:

Specific: You need to define what it is you want to accomplish.  "Lose weight" is not specific, but "lose 15 pounds" is.
 Measurable: Will you be able to know if you reached your goal?  Make sure you have a way to measure your success.
Attainable: "Write a book" is specific and measurable, but can you do it in a year?  Perhaps "Outline the first 10 chapters of a book" is more attainable.  My very first goal was to get out of debt, but it was not attainable in one year so I had a three year plan. (It actually took two)
Relevant:  Is this a goal that matters?  Is it leading where God is leading or do you have impure motives?  Figure out if it is what you really need to be putting your energy into.
Time-Bound: You have to have a time frame on it.  The clock will keep you on track and motivate you to keep moving forward.  Be sure to set checkpoints to see how you are progressing.

Here are two more important tips about goal setting:

1. These goals should be your own.  You won't succeed unless you are passionate about it.
2. Write them down!  I wrote my goals on the closet door next to my bed.  They were the last thing I saw when I climbed into bed at night and the first thing I saw when I woke.  If you do not see them regularly, you will let them slip down the priority list.

 How to determine what your goals should be:
    Step 1: Pray - Seek God for direction
    Step 2: Seek Council/Read - A close friend can give you suggestions and feedback about the goal you are setting.  You can also read a book about the area you are stuck on and I promise a goal will jump out at you.
    Step 3: Test it against the SMART method - Make sure it passes all the requirements or you may set yourself up for failure.

I hope that gives you a starting point for setting goals that matter in your life.  If you would like to get more detail on how to set goals you can check out my Setting Goals That Matter seminar by clicking the links below.  You will get real life examples that can clarify the process as well as a list of resources in the "Wheel of Life" areas.
    Setting Goals That Matter - Audio
    Setting Goals That Matter- Handout

If you are struggling to stay motivated, check out my recent post called "Finding Your Motivation"